Feminism is having a wardrobe malfunction.
Does your brand of feminism remove barriers for women, or simply move them around? Does is expand options for women, or does it just shift them? You don’t liberate women by forcing them to choose option B instead of option A. What is comfortable for you might not be comfortable for someone else, and it’s entirely possible that what you see as oppressive, other women find comfortable or even downright liberating.
Before you think the girl in the middle is a strawman, let me tell you I used to be her, back in my misguided youth. I considered myself the standard to which other people should adhere. But that was stupid. It’s not up to me to tell people how to dress, and it’s much nicer to let everyone choose for themselves.
Some women would feel naked without a veil. Some women would find it restrictive. Some women would feel restricted by a bra. Some women would feel naked without one. Some women would feel restricted by a tight corset. Others love them. Some wear lots of clothes with a corset. Some only wear the corset and nothing else. What makes any article of clothing oppressive is someone forcing you to wear it. And it’s just as oppressive to force someone not to wear something that they want to wear.
Well consider my mind grapes officially squashed.
So great. So important. People need to know martini basics.
to avoid criticism
truth from Philip Glass.
from interview with him & beck in today’s NYtimes magazine.
(also in the mag…great pieces on Romney, Lois Lowry & Ina Drew/chase/JPmorgan disaster)
Must be nice to have a voice to find.
I fell down on February, too. Gonna try again this month (of course, I’m already starting a day late). :/
Let’s see how far I get this time. #marchphotoaday (Taken with instagram)
Perfect Valentine’s card
Littleangrygirl is a genius.
This is amazing.
Behind the scenes of THE 400 BLOWS: